When a package arrives at our house marked, “FRAGILE,” I always am curious to see how the item was packaged and wrapped inside. (Is it bubble-wrap? Is it cut foam to match a specific shape? Is it Styrofoam noodles? Is it simple newspaper?) Of course, I am disappointed if I hear the tinkling of broken glass when I move the package. The very word “fragile” carries with it a sense of careful and cautious handling.
What happens if I forget fragileness? What outcomes may happen if I ignore the delicate composition of something? What results may take place if I forget that our lives- yours and mine – are fragile? I do not know of instances where our lives or our bodies are ever marked with the labels like: “Fragile;” “Handle with care;” “Breakable”! Yes, I am aware of “Intensive Care Unit” ICU; and I know about “Cardiac Intensive Care Unit:” CICU. I am really thinking about our view of life before medical personnel must get “intense.”
WAIT! Yes, there is a reminder from the Bible: 2 Corinthians 4:7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay . . . The knowledge of Jesus being the Lord and knowing we are His servants, has been given to us, like a message in a clay pot. My “clay pot” is fragile and so is yours. We may have denied that we are vulnerable, but every risk we take will soon reveal the possibility of being “hurt.” So, if that is true, and it is, how do we remember that other people, who also have the knowledge of Jesus, can be injured, cracked, or broken? That could happen to people, who do not know Jesus at all, too.
A stone can break a clay pot. A stone can injure us. Careless handling may mean a clay pot can be dropped and broken. Carelessness in human relationships can wound, injure, or even break that connection. Neglect in the care of a container, like a clay pot, may bring a spoilage to the contents. Ignoring the unique history or contents of a person’s life may create a sense of abandonment or rejection. That sense of rejection could produce a roadblock to any further influence you could have with that person. Angry words do not affect a clay pot, but they do impact people causing hurt feelings and a possible broken heart. The destruction of a person through abusive speech is both demeaning and oppressive. This kind of thing happens when we forget “we” and “they” are fragile clay pots.
Have I been there? Yes, I have and the sickening feeling that follows that kind of ungodly behavior is prompted by God’s Spirit of conviction and my own personal guilt. (Guilt is not a bad feeling. It is an indicator that I know I was wrong and need a change that will begin with a sincere apology to the one I have hurt.) While I do not like the feeling of guilt, it is a healthy response that prompts a desire to admit, confess and seek forgiveness from my victim.
Here is a suggestion for today: Ask God to help you remember that you are fragile and that every person you meet today is breakable too. If we can remember that we will “Handle With Care.”