Three Little Words

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Words are amazing vehicles for communication. We are all involved in that personally, sometimes in a group discussion, or even a teaching or preaching opportunity. The reminder is a caution about assuming whether that communication has taken place. The personal illusion may be that communication has happened.

There is this adage: “I know you think you understand what you thought I said, but I don’t think you understand that what I said is not what I actually meant.” Little words impact us in powerful ways and often from unexpected sources. I remember a third-grade boy telling me that the very next week his grandparents were going to be in church to hear me preach. So, he said, “Please be sure you make your sermon points clear.” That kid understood the power of words. He also knew that while my vocation involved words, those words needed to be understandable. It was a good reminder. Another occasion happened during my first student ministry. I was preaching on a Sunday morning and was impressed with some of the words I used and was sure it would impress the congregation. It was one unlikely person who gave me invaluable advice. He was not that kind of advisor that was usual because he usually came late to church and left early. Rarely did I ever get to speak to him personally. But on this Sunday, he stayed and waited until everyone had left. (He knew I had grown up on a ranch and was accustomed to having cattle to feed.) He came to me, shook my hand, looked me squarely in the eyes and said: “Preacher, you’ve got to get the fodder down where the cattle can get to it.” That is all he said and with a kind smile he just turned and left the building. I needed to hear that wise counsel. I just did not expect it would come from him. I have not forgotten it.

In our communication skills, God blesses us with serendipitous moments that leave a lasting impression. And, it usually does not have anything to do with the academic degrees of our advisor.

The three words that stick in my mind today, are words that came from my flight instructor who was preparing me for my private pilot’s instrument rating. Following a training flight, he asked me to join him in his office. It was then he asked this: “Can you tell me the three words that describe your adequate preparation for flying anywhere?” I stood still thinking of how I could use only three words to describe my readiness: 1) I thought about the aircraft, its number, fuel burn, necessary speed for rotation off the runway. 2) I thought about what the weather was now and what it would be at my destination airport. 3) I thought about what was necessary in pre-flighting the aircraft and the checklist that would be needed. 4) I thought about the necessity of filing a flight plan properly. 5) I knew that radio frequencies needed to be written down for use during the flight. There were all kinds of facts rolling around in my brain. But I could not think of how to describe that in three words. I confessed I did not know what those words were and he said: “All available information.”

How simple that was! I began making a personal application to family conversations that had not had that qualifier and conclusions that were wrong because of not having it. I thought of lessons, speeches, and sermons that I had delivered without that consideration. I considered bad decisions I had made because I did not have all the information I needed. I also knew the caution I needed to give myself about “all available information.” It was simple too. Just because I knew the information did not mean it had to all be included in my presentation. But if I did not get that info, I just might not deliver a clear understandable word.

So, what are some of the ingredients I need for my preaching? I include these: 1) I need to know who is in my audience; 2) I want to know the current culture; 3) I want to consider the timing I have; 4) I want to know the Biblical text and its language implications; 5) I want to make sure Jesus is the focus; 6) I want to be sure to pray about the practical application of Scripture for living; 7) I want to invite and challenge people to make a decision. What do I need to do that? I need the same three words used to file a flight plan. WHY? I want to arrive safely on my final approach. I want that for you too. I want you to get to your destination along with me. Then we can anticipate the Father, saying: “Welcome Home!”

Choices

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“It’s your choice.” “It’s up to you.” “I can’t make the decision for you.”

You may remember a parent saying this to you or you recall a teacher’s counsel to you about a choice you were about to make. Most of the time, during my childhood, I had to learn the hard way, every choice carried with it consequences. While it would have been easier for me to blame someone else for the results of my choice, I learned that it was healthy for me to admit my choice that led to a success or a failure. This pattern doesn’t seem to be a model for our society today. When ruin or disaster takes place, I tend to look around for someone else to blame for the mess that I chose. Right now, our country’s leaders seem to be very intentional about denial of choices they have made, that have led to disastrous consequences.

Why do they do that? Why do I do that? Is it because I think the choices I make are my business and do not impact anyone else? Do I ignore certain given precautions about a choice to be made because I think those guidelines are for other people but not for me? Do I think that my choices are so highly spiritual that I cannot possibly make a mistake?  Is it because I am so independently proud that I do not need any advice? What choice is so unimportant I do not need to discuss it with anyone? 

I have a confession to make: The best choices I have ever made have always included asking God and asking others for help with that choice.

Consider these opportunities for your choosing:

  • Ask Almighty God to guide your choice. (When Peter began to sink into the water instead of walking on it, his reaction was simple: Lord, save me! Ask Him for help.
  • Ask your family members about their thinking of your choice. (You may be surprised at their insight.)
  • Ask a trusted friend to advise you. (Actually, you may not have to do this because he or she may already be advising you without your request.)
  • Ask yourself about the urgency of this choice being made. (Some decisions must be made quickly in emergency situations. The disciple Peter spoke quickly about this need for Jesus’ help. Most of my own choices have not had urgency associated with them.)
  • When you ask God for help, He may want you to wait on His answer instead of demanding an immediate response. (Check Isaiah 40:31 for a consideration.)

The most important choice I have ever made was the choice I made to accept Jesus Christ as my personal Lord and Savior. There were lots of Bible teachers who played a role in this choosing. They were not famous; they were not powerful or popular; they were not high-pressure folks nor threatening me with the hell-fires of damnation. They were steady parents, neighbors and friends who loved the Lord and longed to see me love Him too. I knew no one else could make that choice for me. I knew it was up to me. It was going to have to be my decision. The pattern in the New Testament reinforces the personal choice that every person made for himself or herself. So, yes, I decided. It was on a hot, muggy day when humidity was high and the aroma of the Fox River filled my nostrils in a church in Green Bay, Wisconsin. I walked forward at decision time, made my profession of faith, and was baptized into Christ in 1955. It was that single choice that has shaped the rest of my life, to this very day. How could I do that?

The answer is simple: God made me with the ability to make choices. Yup, I’ve made some bad choices and had to suffer the consequences accordingly. I’m guessing that you have too. But, when I come back to my choosing Jesus Christ, I’ve never been sorry. You will not be sorry either.

Inspired

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Just hearing her excited speaking was an inspiration so strong, I wanted to listen.

The song he sang was done with so much emotion, I immediately identified my own feelings.

Watching the skill of his work with freshly dried walnut was amazing enough to me that I wanted to try the same thing. Inspired!

Great works of art on museum display, classical music composed by Beethoven and Mozart, coordinated, and disciplined athletic prowess which is displayed during Olympic competition – all serve to motivate, challenge, encourage and inspire us.

Consider the people who have inspired you. I will mention only a few of countless people who have inspired me, through the years.

  • It was my dad who showed me the example of excellence in working and building. His advice: “If you don’t have time to do a job right, when are you going to have time to do it over?” That counsel is still locked in my memory some 70 years after his passing.
  • It was my mom who showed me the example of faithfulness in serving, when she went to serve on the mission field of Africa at 70 years of age.
  • It was my home preacher, Bruce Burdick, who challenged me for ministry by giving me opportunities to preach while I was a High School student.  
  • There have been elders in every church I have served, who took me aside to give me personal encouragement and prayer support.
  • It was my father-in-law, Andy Larson who was unafraid to commend and support my ministry, regardless of where I had moved away from his home with his daughter and his grandchildren.
  • It is still a blessing for me to have Karen as my wife, who has been with me through every situation in ministry.  I have never wondered about her love, her dedication to the Lord, her commitment to our ministry, our children or to me.
  • Then, there is the treasure of our friends who have been so faithful through the years with their love, advice, encouragement, and reinforcement of their care. (If you are reading this, you must may be one of those “encouragers.”

What is it that causes people to be an inspiration to others? I have a simple answer. That answer is we took time to look at what God has done and is doing. I witness the inspiring work of God Almighty in the creation of all He has made. That work points to a Master Designer, who has this wonderful order in everything He has created, from the mitochondria found in a DNA sample to the color in a butterfly’s wing. The condition for witnessing this inspiration is slowing down long enough to look and listen. “Take time to smell the roses.” God has been at work all through the ages. It is still inspiring.

Yes, I do have my bias: I believe the Bible is inspired and inspiring. That is not my idea, but it is a core belief, recorded in 2 Timothy 3:16-17- 16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, 17so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

Inspired means: “God breathed.” Do you know what happens when God “breathes” into something? ANSWER: It comes alive. That is what happened to Adam, recorded in the book of Genesis. Adam became a living soul. God is the person from whom inspiration comes. He speaks and something happens. That kind of inspiring stimulus is exactly what I need to become an example in my generation. We could inspire folks around us. These are the people of our generation. They are friends, co-workers, neighbors, and relatives. We can do it, if we will watch for ways to encourage people around us. Decide to encourage someone. It may be the exact stimulus your friend needs. It is your turn to inspire! Let’s do it! I may even help someone to see the Creator of “inspiration.”